LYH002: Top 10 Things Husbands Wish Their Wives Understood About Sex [Podcast]


Show Agenda

  • Resource Corner: Cozi
  • Spotlight: Cynthia Williamston, BridalTribe (Yonkers, NY)
  • Featured Presentation: Top 10 Things Husbands Wish Their Wives Understood About Sex


Resource Corner: Weekly segment aimed to introduce you to a helpful family resource

Resource:  Cozi (
Cozi is a free app and website that helps you manage the chaos of family life with a shared calendar, shopping lists, to do lists and more.
Cozi keeps track of everything from school schedules and sports activities to grocery lists, meals and chores—all in one place the whole family can access anytime, anywhere.

Spotlight: Features an organization that is doing excellent things to impact families

Spotlight: Cynthia Williamston, BridalTribe

Key Thoughts:

Mission: To help people plan a memorable wedding day, to navigate marriage, and build positive and lasting relationships. We are a company devoted to love.


  • Bridal Tribe magazine
  • Tribal Wisdom radio show,
  • Beauty Service for the wedding day;
  • Boutique wedding expos – framed as a date night

Success Secrets:

  • Plan to your own strengths—don’t be “cookie cutter”
  • Meet People where they are
  • Develop relationships

Top Priority for Family Leaders over the next 3 years:

  • We are entering the Age of relationships. So, connect best with families by knowing yourself first. Then, serve people

Social Media Connections:

Featured Presentation: 

“Top 10 Things Husbands Wish Their Wives Understood About Sex”

During our Marriage ROCKS workshops, Dalia and I usually have a gender breakout session where we have a fun yet serious discussion about physical intimacy. Wives and husbands develop their respective top 10 lists. The list below represents a composite of the most frequently mentioned notes from husbands.

This represents a generalization and may not describe you or your husband. But, then again, it might…

#10 – I don’t necessarily know what gets you in the mood.
#9 – Your focus on the kids and other issues is getting in the way of our intimacy
#8 – Physical closeness helps us feel emotionally close
#7 – It would mean a lot if you initiate the intimacy sometimes
#6 – We are visual. It would greatly enhance the intimate time  if you ditch the granny pajamas and hair rollers
#5 – Surprise me – Spontaneity keeps it fresh
#4 – I wish you would tell me what gives you the most pleasure and what doesn’t. Be kindly honest.
#3 – I’d like to experiment beyond the missionary position
#2 – I would like to have sex more frequently
#1 – There is a role for the quickie

If you and your spouse minister to families, you need encouragement yourself sometimes. The Ignite Ministry Couples Retreat is for you. If you’re looking for an opportunity to join with other ministry leaders at a private, intimate 3 day, 2 night retreat that promises to elevate your ministry and your marriage to the next level, visit to learn more

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