LYH97: Four Unconventional Ways to Your Spouse’s Heart on Valentine’s Day

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Faith in Focus: Love’s Prisoner

(Ephesians 4:1-2)
“As a prisoner for the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received. Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.”

 

Featured Presentation: Four Unconventional Ways to Your Spouse’s Heart on Valentine’s Day

 

Four Unconventional Ways

  1. L: Listen without judgment
  2. O – Observe the little things
  3. V – Value his/her interest
  4. E – Express gratitude for your relationship 

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LYH96: How to Keep Your Marriage in MOTION

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  • Featured Presentation: How to Keep Your Marriage in MOTION

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Faith in Focus: Salt and Light

(2 Thessalonians 3:11-13)
“We hear that some among you are idle and disruptive. They are not busy; they are busybodies. Such people we command and urge in the Lord Jesus Christ to settle down and earn the food they eat. And as for you, brothers and sisters, never tire of doing what is good.”

Featured Presentation:How to Keep Your Marriage in MOTION

All marriages are in MOTION. Each couple determines which of four types of motion for their marriage and we use a boating metaphor to explain each.

  • Crazy Growth – You are Sailing as a couple. You are in sync and growing. Communication and decision-making are good most of the time. Love feels easy.
  • Slow Growth – You are Rowing as a couple. Things are positive and moving forward. But, it takes deliberate work to make it happen. Things feel good but they don’t feel easy.
  • Slow Decline – You are Drifting as a couple. You feel like you are married living single much of the time. There is a lack of deliberate attention to becoming better as a couple. Things aren’t horrible but you feel like you are pulling away from each other. Intimacy is strained.
  • Crazy Decline – You are Sinking as a couple. Your marriage is on the way to emotional and/or physical separation. Very little, if anything, is going well. Everything feels strained.
 Achieving and maintaining Crazy Growth requires that you focus on six areas as a couple.
  • M – MOTIVE
  • O – OBSTACLES
  • T – TOGETHERNESS
  • I – INTIMACY
  • O – Others
  • N – NOW

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LYH95: Turn the Page of Your Life’s Story

Turn the Page
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  • Featured Presentation: Turn the Page of Your Life’s Story with Special Guest, Dr. Johnny Parker

Faith in Focus: “Step Out”

Now then, choose twelve men from the tribes of Israel, one from each tribe. 13 And as soon as the priests who carry the ark of the Lord—the Lord of all the earth—set foot in the Jordan, its waters flowing downstream will be cut off and stand up in a heap.

(Joshua 3:12-13)

Featured Presentation: Turn the Page of Your Life’s Story

Special Guest: Dr. Johnny Parker

In this episode I discuss the following important topics and much more with my special guest:

  • What is missing in leadership
  • Why men struggle to listen to their heart
  • Why we feel stuck in a bad story
  • The questions to ask to turn the page in your life
  • and, much much more!

If you have any questions, just leave it in the comments for this episode or leave a voicemail on my website

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LYH94: How to Deal with Difficult People

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  • Featured Presentation: How to Deal with Difficult People

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Faith in Focus: Salt and Light

(Matthew 5:13-16)
“You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot. You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”

Featured Presentation: How to Deal with Difficult People

10 Practical Tips for dealing with difficult people

  1. Don’t be self-righteous (“There is no one righteous, no not one”, Roman 3:10)
  2. Stop trying to control others
  3. Use Discretion in Confrontations (“The discretion of a man delays his anger; and it is his glory to overlook a transgression.”,  Proverbs 19:11)
  4. Learn to listen better
  5. Resign from the bench (“Judge not, that you be not judged”,  Matt 7:1)
  6. Forgive
  7. Refuse to retaliate as you prioritize your faith over your feelings (“All things work together for the good“, Romans 8:28)
  8. Refuse to play their game
  9. Maintain humility by esteeming others rather than yourself (“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, 4 not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.“, Philippians 2:3-4)
  10. Stay prayerful (“But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 that you may be children of your Father in heaven.“, Matthew 5:44)
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LYH93: Discovering Oz: The One True Path to Security

Discovering Oz
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  • Featured Presentation: Discovering Oz: The One True Path to Security

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Faith in Focus: Security System

(Nahum 1:7)
“The Lord is good, a refuge in times of trouble. He cares for those who trust in him.”

 

Featured Presentation: Discovering Oz: The One True Path to Security

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Security is an illusion when it is placed in temporal things.

What is your Oz?

Oz is that place where your deepest passions meet culture’s direst needs. Oz is a place of hope.

Discovering your Oz this year requires that you address the same three challenges that Dorothy and her companions met in Oz, the Scarecrow, the Tin Man, and the Lion.

From the Scarecrow we learn

Every pursuit of influence, by definition, entails a quest for knowledge and wisdom to know where to look for it. The knowledge that you have to succeed at your current level is not what you will need to master the next level.

From the Tin Man we learn

You must have heart to feel and emotionally connect with the world around you. Invest emotionally in people that God places in your path.

From the Lion we learn…

Every quest for purpose requires the courage to leave the familiar behind and align our reality with our destiny. You, too, must muster the Lion’s courage and be bold enough to go for your best self.

You have everything you need to embrace the journey and be your best self.
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