LYH64: How to Raise Your Children to be Leaders (Part 1)

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The Case for Natural Born Leaders

The biblical book of Ephesians (2:10) phrases it this way, “For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.”  In other words, the good works of your children and mine are a God thing. And, good works are always about influencing others towards the kingdom of God.

Leadership Begins at Home

Leadership development must begin in the home at the earliest ages because these are the years when a child’s self-perceptions are being formed. I firmly believe this principle is rooted in the well known biblical proverb, “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.” (Proverbs 22:6).

As parents, it is our job to keep their eyes focused on the spiritual purpose that is their birthright. Hence, we see the Proverbs 22:6 encouragement to “train up a child” has three pedagogical elements:

  • Teach them to know their Creator
  • Teach them to walk worthy of their Christian heritage
  • Teach them to discern and pursue their life’s purpose

Five Steps to “Train up your child”

  • Step 1: Start Early
  • Step 2: Set High Expectations
  • Step 3: Show, Don’t Tell
  • Step 4: Stay Consistent
  • Step 5: Reward Desired Behavior

What does “train up a child” mean to you? In what ways has this been easy or difficult for you? I would love to hear your comments.

Be sure to check back for part 2 of this series where we will focus on the next part of this verse, “Train up a child in the way he should go”.  Looking forward to sharing these insights with you.

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LYH63: How to Develop a Listen Habit at Home [PODCAST]

Listen Habit

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The Listening Habit
  • H – Honor Purpose: Helping each person in the home develop into the person s/he is destined to be requires a sensitivity to the gifts of each person.
  • A – Affirm Strengths: Families that successfully develop leaders within their ranks focus on affirming strengths. Pay attention to what each person does well. Then, cultivate that to a level of expertise. In other words, help their good get better.
  • B – Believe Bigger: Encouragement is fertilizer for the human soul. It is pushing one another to next level of performance through affirmation not guilt or other punitive measures.
  • I – Invest Emotionally: Listening is an act of empathy—an emotion. Emotional investment knits hearts around a shared goal—reaching one’s true potential.
  • T – Talk Last: Talking is overrated. When you are talking, you are less able to fully consider what is going on around you. Talking gets in the way. If you talk last, people will increasingly value what you say.
So, there you have the five tactical steps to develop the listen habit in your home. Leave me a comment to share your thoughts.
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The Listen Habit

When you think of the greatest leadership development organizations in the country of what do you think? You might be tempted to name a company like Google that has re-defined what it means to search the Internet and is known for their out of the box thinking. Maybe a company like Apple will come to mind as you marvel at the steady stream of blockbuster devices they have engineered. Still others might think of the U.S military with its world-class training to prepare our troops for optimal performance. All of these, of course, are excellent organizations with proven leadership programs. However, none of them compare to the greatest place for leadership development in the world—your home. Family is supposed to be the training ground that equips you with the relational skills, character, and affirmation that you need for success in life. Developing this culture in your home demands one skill above all else. This is the ability to create a listening atmosphere in your home.

LYH62: The 50 Things I’d Tell My Younger Self [PODCAST]

Happy 50th birthday

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Happy birthday month to me. This month, June 2015, I am 50 years old. In celebration of my fiftieth birthday I have compiled a list of the fifty spiritual, psychological/relational, financial, and health-related things that I would tell my younger self if I could travel back in time.

Some of these things would have served me well as a youth and young adult in having self-confidence and being proud of my physical appearance. Other things would have helped me develop a stronger business orientation sooner.

I am very proud of what I have accomplished in my life. I have a beautiful wife who loves me without question. I have two amazing and talented children. And, I have achieved many of the goals that I have set for myself.

But, I believe that as I continue to tweak some things that I will become a better human being, husband, father, friend, and Christian. It is my hope that these fifty suggestions empower you to your next level as well.

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LYH61: How to Unleash Your Prayer Power [with Guest: Dee Marshall]

Girlfriends Pray

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Listen to Dee Marshall discuss:

  • Girlfriends Pray – an organization of over 100,000 women worldwide
  • The importance of staying true to your core identity
  • The testimonial that brought Dee to tears
  • The discipline of prayer
  • What authenticity, availability, and abundance connect us to prayer
  • And, much more…

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