LYH62: The 50 Things I’d Tell My Younger Self [PODCAST]

Happy 50th birthday

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Happy birthday month to me. This month, June 2015, I am 50 years old. In celebration of my fiftieth birthday I have compiled a list of the fifty spiritual, psychological/relational, financial, and health-related things that I would tell my younger self if I could travel back in time.

Some of these things would have served me well as a youth and young adult in having self-confidence and being proud of my physical appearance. Other things would have helped me develop a stronger business orientation sooner.

I am very proud of what I have accomplished in my life. I have a beautiful wife who loves me without question. I have two amazing and talented children. And, I have achieved many of the goals that I have set for myself.

But, I believe that as I continue to tweak some things that I will become a better human being, husband, father, friend, and Christian. It is my hope that these fifty suggestions empower you to your next level as well.

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LYH61: How to Unleash Your Prayer Power [with Guest: Dee Marshall]

Girlfriends Pray

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Listen to Dee Marshall discuss:

  • Girlfriends Pray – an organization of over 100,000 women worldwide
  • The importance of staying true to your core identity
  • The testimonial that brought Dee to tears
  • The discipline of prayer
  • What authenticity, availability, and abundance connect us to prayer
  • And, much more…

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LYH59: Keys to Effective Listening [PODCAST]

Keys to Effective Listening

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  • Featured Presentation: The Keys to Effective Listening
  • Guest: Marva Shand-McIntosh, Founder of I Love to Listen Day

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Listen to Marva Shand-McIntosh discuss:

  • What it means to really listen
  • The impact of listening on home and work life
  • The importance of learning to listen to God
  • How to truly listen to yourself
  • All about I Love to Listen Day (10th Anniversary)
  • And, much more…

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LYH55: Why You Need the Voice of a Slave

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You can find the full blog post on this topic at haroldarnold.com/slavevoice

Though I am free and belong to no one, I have made myself a slave to everyone, to win as many as possible. To the Jews I became like a Jew, to win the Jews. To those under the law I became like one under the law (though I myself am not under the law), so as to win those under the law. To those not having the law I became like one not having the law (though I am not free from God’s law but am under Christ’s law), so as to win those not having the law. To the weak I became weak, to win the weak. I have become all things to all people so that by all possible means I might save some. I do all this for the sake of the gospel, that I may share in its blessings.”  (1 Corinthians 9:19-23)

And, here are five practices that I learn from Paul in how to develop my voice as a slave.

  • Practice #1: Choose your master
  • Practice #2: Prioritize your purpose over social stigma
  • Practice #3: Be more open-minded
  • Practice #4: Accept that you can’t change everyone
  • Practice #5: Receive your blessings

What constrains your own slave voice? You have to let it go so that ultimately you receive the full blessings intended for you.

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The Voice of a Slave

As an African-American, I cringe when I hear the word “slave” as it immediately evokes images of four hundred years of oppression of Black people. I wince when I think of the beatings, lynchings, and inhumane treatment that people of African descent endured. Even after the Emancipation Proclamation, Jim Crow laws made life a living hell for many of my ancestors. Slavery equals oppression and denial of rights. Slavey means injustice and poverty. But, could slavery also be a blessing? When considered in the context of scripture, it is this question that challenges me to consider developing the voice of a slave.

The apostle Paul, once a persecutor of the early Christian church, became one of its staunchest and most fearless advocates after his conversion to Christianity. After his personal encounter with God on the road to Damascus, Paul (formerly named Saul) was enlightened as to God’s displeasure with persecution of Christians. When confronted under the light of God, Paul transformed his life to become one of Christianity’s greatest missionaries. Paul’s two missionary journeys are nothing short of amazing. But, what was the secret to his success? Some might argue that it is his courage and conviction to preach the gospel. I certainly think that that plays a part. But, many courageous and convicted people are not as successful in their endeavors. I believe the answer is found in the book of 1 Corinthians. He learned the voice of a slave. That is the true voice of influence.

Here is Paul’s account of his slave voice:

“Though I am free and belong to no one, I have made myself a slave to everyone, to win as many as possible. To the Jews I became like a Jew, to win the Jews. To those under the law I became like one under the law (though I myself am not under the law), so as to win those under the law. To those not having the law I became like one not having the law (though I am not free from God’s law but am under Christ’s law), so as to win those not having the law. To the weak I became weak, to win the weak. I have become all things to all people so that by all possible means I might save some. I do all this for the sake of the gospel, that I may share in its blessings.” (1 Corinthians 9:19-23)

Here are a few of the questions that immediately come to my mind as I read Paul’s slave.

Why would Paul make himself a slave to everyone? What’s wrong with him? Won’t he lose his own sense of identity in trying to accommodate everyone else? Does it really take all of that to live for the sake of the gospel?