LYH96: How to Keep Your Marriage in MOTION

Show Agenda

  • Featured Presentation: How to Keep Your Marriage in MOTION

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Faith in Focus: Salt and Light

(2 Thessalonians 3:11-13)
“We hear that some among you are idle and disruptive. They are not busy; they are busybodies. Such people we command and urge in the Lord Jesus Christ to settle down and earn the food they eat. And as for you, brothers and sisters, never tire of doing what is good.”

Featured Presentation:How to Keep Your Marriage in MOTION

All marriages are in MOTION. Each couple determines which of four types of motion for their marriage and we use a boating metaphor to explain each.

  • Crazy Growth – You are Sailing as a couple. You are in sync and growing. Communication and decision-making are good most of the time. Love feels easy.
  • Slow Growth – You are Rowing as a couple. Things are positive and moving forward. But, it takes deliberate work to make it happen. Things feel good but they don’t feel easy.
  • Slow Decline – You are Drifting as a couple. You feel like you are married living single much of the time. There is a lack of deliberate attention to becoming better as a couple. Things aren’t horrible but you feel like you are pulling away from each other. Intimacy is strained.
  • Crazy Decline – You are Sinking as a couple. Your marriage is on the way to emotional and/or physical separation. Very little, if anything, is going well. Everything feels strained.
 Achieving and maintaining Crazy Growth requires that you focus on six areas as a couple.
  • M – MOTIVE
  • O – OBSTACLES
  • T – TOGETHERNESS
  • I – INTIMACY
  • O – Others
  • N – NOW

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LYH95: Turn the Page of Your Life’s Story

Show Agenda

  • Featured Presentation: Turn the Page of Your Life’s Story with Special Guest, Dr. Johnny Parker

Faith in Focus: “Step Out”

Now then, choose twelve men from the tribes of Israel, one from each tribe. 13 And as soon as the priests who carry the ark of the Lord—the Lord of all the earth—set foot in the Jordan, its waters flowing downstream will be cut off and stand up in a heap.

(Joshua 3:12-13)

Featured Presentation: Turn the Page of Your Life’s Story

Special Guest: Dr. Johnny Parker

In this episode I discuss the following important topics and much more with my special guest:

  • What is missing in leadership
  • Why men struggle to listen to their heart
  • Why we feel stuck in a bad story
  • The questions to ask to turn the page in your life
  • and, much much more!

If you have any questions, just leave it in the comments for this episode or leave a voicemail on my website

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LYH90: The 7 Rings of Marriage with Jackie Bledsoe

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  • Featured Presentation: The 7 Rings of Marriage with Special Guest, Jackie Bledsoe

Faith in Focus: “Love & Respect”

“However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.” (Ephesians 5:33)

Featured Presentation: The 7 Rings of Marriage

Special Guest: Jackie Bledsoe

In this episode I discuss the following important topics and much more with my special guest:

  • Why do spouses feel alone?
  • How can the good and the bad stuff of marriage moves your marriage higher?
  • Why is transparency is the key to marital growth
  • Why couples must think about marriage from a developmental perspective
  • How can strong couples mentor other marriages? and, much much more…

If you have any questions, just leave it in the comments for this episode or leave a voicemail on my website

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LYH81: How You Can Discover Your More

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  • Featured Presentation: How You Can Discover Your More

Faith in Focus: “Why Want More?”

“Then Jesus told his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.” (Matthew 16:24)

Featured Presentation: How You can Discover Your More

Special Guest: Niki Brown, CEO and Founder of Purpose by Design

In this episode I discuss the following important topics and much more with my special guest:

  • How do we survive those challenges that make us question our core identity?
  • What to do when you feel defeated?
  • How to tap into your passion when you feel like you’re at a low point in life?
  • How to develop the power to move into your destiny?

 I am offering TWO free tickets to the upcoming IGNITE Women’s Empowerment Summit to two women who give what Niki Brown and I judge as the most compelling post that is left below as to why this message “There is More” is personal to you.

If you have any questions, just leave it in the comments for this episode or leave a voicemail on my website.

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5 Ways to Protect Your Marriage from Ashley Madison

One visit to the home page of the AshleyMadison.com communicates volumes. The banner reads, “Life is Short. Have an affair”. The visual of a woman whose wedding band is prominently shown gives the universally understood sign for secrecy. AshleyMadison.com was established in 2001 as the self-described “world’s leading married dating service for discreet encounters.” The website boasts nearly forty million anonymous users. Except on August 18th, 2015 the secrets were revealed courtesy of The Impact Team, a hacker group, who cracked the Ashley Madison database and vowed to release the names unless the site was taken down. On this infamous date, the hackers posted the names, partial credit card numbers, email and physical addresses, and sexual preferences of 32 million Ashley Madison customers.

 

Revelation of the database of clientele of Ashley Madison has sent reverberations throughout many sectors of society as many trusted authorities have been implicated. Many clients were military personnel where adultery is explicitly forbidden. Some CEOs have resigned from prominent positions. Just a few days ago, Relevant Magazine reported survey results suggesting that four hundred church leaders will resign this Sunday because of this leak. I suspect that we are only at the beginning of the consequence of the hack.

 

My focus isn’t on whether The Impact Team’s hack on the Ashley Madison database was just. I clearly think it was wrong of the hackers to illegally crack this database and expose the Ashley Madison customers. But, honestly, that is not what saddens me. My spirit is grieved by the very prominence of this website. My heart is heavy because it boasts nearly forty million users. And,

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