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Featured Presentation: 10 Unspoken Things Husbands Wish Their Wives Would Do

You can find the full blog post on this topic at haroldarnold.com/unspokenwishes

We husbands often don’t talk to our wives about our wishes. So, to help out both us husbands and our bewildered wives, I’d like to propose 10 things that we husbands wish our wives would do—even though we may never actually ask for them.

10 (Unspoken) Things Husbands Wish Their Wives Would Do

• Wish #1: Give him a foot rub
• Wish #2: Take a shower (or bubble bath) together
• Wish #3: Tell him he looks good
• Wish #4: Affirm his leadership of the family
• Wish #5: Express gratitude for the provision that he makes for the family
• Wish #6: Show him that you’re his biggest fan
• Wish #7: Tell him that you’d marry him all over again
• Wish #8: Tell him you trust him with your future
• Wish #9: You’re ready to tackle your finances as a team
• Wish #10: Encourage his lovemaking

So, there are my 10 unspoken things that I believe wives can do for their husbands. I’m sure that some of you wives are questioning why or how you should encourage your husband in an area if he doesn’t seem to be making sufficient effort in any one particular area. This is a great point.

But, sometimes, it is important to encourage that which you don’t see yet. The key is to affirm the baby steps. Even if there are really small ones. In many instances, if you sincerely encourage the small things, you will begin to see bigger things.

I look forward to hearing your thoughts about these ten thoughts. Are they spoken or unspoken in your marriage? Leave a comment and let me know.

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